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Practice for Psychotherapy & Counseling
Dr. Phil Stöckli , ph.D.
Gemeindestr. 26 | 8032 Zürich
Tel. 076 282 8885
Practice for Psychotherapy
Dr. Phil Stöckli, PhD
Therapeutic Stance and Core Values
“Everything we are looking for
is already in us”
My psychotherapeutic approach is primarily based on a
humanistic, trauma-sensitive view of mankind. Studies have long
shown that the most powerful factor in the success of
psychotherapy is neither therapy method nor experience - rather
the relationship - the experience of being seen and heard from
one human being to another - has proven to be the most vital
factor. The following principles are central to my work:
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True listening creates regulation and connection with the other
person.
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Connection to your own body enables energy flow, regulation,
and integration.
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Everything works better when you are relaxed.
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Every moment offers an opportunity to get in touch with
yourself and practice self-acceptance.
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Following the body's signals leads the way to the natural core
self.
Trust in the Body's Innate Wisdom and Healing Powers
My therapeutic stance is shaped by the conviction that our mind,
psyche, body, and nervous system are best at healing themselves.
This might sound sarcastic to some: Why am I not already healthy
and feeling great? Believing in the body's self-healing powers does
not mean that we don't need support. In fact, burden and stress
are usually accompanied by a disconnection from the self. As a
result, the brain lacks vital signals from the body, and blocked
emotional energy can no longer flow freely.
A compassionate presence and a safe space where one can truly
be oneself are the prerequisites for rediscovering and reviving
this lost connection. Depending on one’s past experiences, it can
take time to build trust in another person and in one’s own body.
My trust in the body’s wisdom is rooted in years of personal
therapy and self-experience across a wide range of modalities,
including Gestalt Therapy, EMDR, NARM, Somatic Experiencing,
Shiatsu, Neurofeedback, Feldenkrais, Craniosacral Therapy, and
Rolfing. It is also firmly grounded in the humanistic tradition,
which I encountered during my Gestalt training and which forms
the heart of my therapeutic approach. To me, a humanistic
approach means meeting the patient as an equal and showing up
as a whole person, both in touch with my vulnerabilities and
strengths. I meet my clients as I would wish to be met: with
respect, curiosity, appreciation, and human dignity.
Methods used to support the self-healing
In the following list of used methods, I would like to point out the
extent to which they incorporate the element of self-healing:
Gestalt therapy
Gestalt therapy is based on humanistic values and is rooted in the
tradition of mindfulness, psychoanalysis, and Gestalt theory. The
latter posits, among other things, that an 'open Gestalt' strives for
completion. This implies that systems are self-organizing as long
as an exchange—or connection—is possible. These systems can
be social groups or the organism itself. Accordingly, Gestalt
therapeutic interventions include those that promote exchange
between systems. To achieve this, elements of the system are
often symbolized so they can be observed from outside the
person—for example, through chair work or identification with a
symbol. In this way, feelings, needs, child or adult parts, and
much more can be represented. In this exchange, emphasis is
placed on allowing these elements to express what feels most
important to them. The therapist may suggest experiments so
that missing, split-off, or underdeveloped aspects can be
experienced and integrated. The patient is invited into these
experiments and ultimately decides for themselves what
resonated internally and what value it holds. The central element
in Gestalt therapy is contact—another word for connection.
Somatic Experiencing
Somatic Experiencing is a body-based trauma therapy method
that uses primarily a bottom-up aproach. This means that
sensorimotor and emotional information originating from the
body and the senses are central to the processing of stress and
trauma. We all know that anxiety and trauma do not disappear
just by cognitive processing. Research has demonstrated that
traumatic memories are primarily stored in implicit procedural
memory, consisting of sensory, emotional, and interoceptive
information. Peter Levine’s core principle is that trauma
symptoms resolve when unfinished defensive responses can be
brought to completion. The essence of trauma is, after all, the
inability to defend oneself and being overwhelmed. To track these
instinctive reactions, one must follow the inner trail noticing the
subtle signals of the bodily system and giving them the space to
unfold naturally. In other words, much like in NARM, it is about
locating blocked life energy and allowing it to flow again. In this
way, trauma can be naturally discharged and transformed -
similar to how it occurs in the animal kingdom - and the bound
energy becomes available to the organism once more and
homeostasis is restored.
NARM (neuro-affective relational model)
NARM is a psychotherapeutic approach specifically designed for
developmental trauma, building upon the principles of Somatic
Experiencing and Gestalt therapy, among others. It assumes that
we are born with full vitality and life energy, but that during our
development, we adapt to our environment and our parents in
ways that diminish this natural life force. NARM supports clients
in rediscovering their own natural vitality - for it lies within us and
can never be truly lost. When we are connected to this life force,
conflicts, tensions, and symptoms often resolve on their own. In
reality, this process should be envisioned as a gradual one: it is
about reaching a state where our body is optimally connected to
its resources and the environment - a state Porges calls the
ventral-vagal state. Since life is not static, our states are also
dynamic and do not last indefinitely. However, the more often an
individual experiences this state of connection, safety, and inner
peace, the more this neural network is strengthened and the
easier to move into it. This, in turn, solidifies one's trust in their
self-healing powers and a positive belief in one-self and the world
around us.
EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing)
EMDR is a trauma therapy method in which bilateral stimulation
signals to the brain that it should begin processing now, without
dictating how that processing should occur. The guiding principle
is that the process works best the less the therapist (or the client)
intervene. This approach relies on the trust that the brain will
process exactly what is most important in the moment, in the
specific way that is best. It is fascinating to witness how
overwhelming experiences are transformed into processed
memories in this way and how the brain draws on its own
resources during this process.
A note about body therapy and touch
If you go to a psychotherapist, you expect to have conversations
sitting down without any touch. My body-oriented training and
own experience with various body therapeutic methods in recent
years have brought me ever closer to the body. Through the
scientific and personal research of the functioning and evidence
of body therapy - which ultimately lead to me writing a book
about it - I have realized, among other things, that access to
certain topics and problems is hardly possible through traditional
talk therapy, e.g. early developmental trauma, experiences of
early neglect or near-death experiences.
I therefore offer a body-oriented approach with or without touch,
if you wish and if there is sufficient mutual trust. This offer is an
extension of my previous psychotherapeutic approach.